Fiqh I'tikaf

By Language (Lughah):
- الملازم - follow, accompany, familiarize, honor (See Imam ash Syaukani, Fathul Qadir, 1 / 244. Mawqi 'Ruh al-Islam)
يقال عكف على الشيء: إذا لازمه
                It says, 'akafa' ala Ash Syai '(He settled on something), meaning he was always with him. (Ibid)
Shaykh Sayyid Sabiq rahimahullah says:
الاعتكاف لزوم الشئ وحبس النفس عليه, خيرا كان أم شرا
I'tikaf is to honor something and shut down, in terms of good or bad. (Fiqhus Sunnah, 1 / 475)
In term (Personality '):
 والاعتكاف في الشرع: ملازمة طاعة مخصوصة على شرط مخصوص
In Personality ': settled in order to adhere specifically to the special requirements as well. (Fathl Qadir, 1 / 245)
Shaykh Sayyid Sabiq rahimahullah says:
والمقصود به هنا لزوم المسجد والاقامة فيه بنية التقرب إلى الله عزوجل.
What is meant here is I'tikaf fulfill prayers in mosques and enforce it with the intention of drawing nearer to Allah 'Azza wa Jalla. (Fiqhus Sunnah, 1 / 475)


Legal Basis
- Koran

ولا تباشروهن وأنتم عاكفون في المساجد
Do not you interfere with them (wife), while you're I'tikaf at the mosque. (Surat al-Baqara: 187)
- As Sunnah

Of 'Aisha radiallahu' anha:

أن النبي صلى الله عليه وسلم كان يعتكف العشر الأواخر من رمضان حتى توفاه الله ثم اعتكف أزواجه من بعده

That the Prophet sallallaahu 'Alaihi wa Sallam retreat in the last 10 days of Ramadan till he diwafatka God, then his wives were I'tikaf after that. (Narrated by Bukhari, No. 2026, No. Muslims. 1171, Abu Daud No. 2462. Ahmad No. 24 613, and others)

From Abu Hurayrah, he said:
كان النبي صلى الله عليه وسلم يعتكف في كل رمضان عشرة أيام فلما كان العام الذي قبض فيه اعتكف عشرين يوما
Formerly the Prophet sallallaahu 'Alaihi wa Sallam I'tikaf in every 10 days of Ramadan, when in the year he died, he I'tikaf 20 days. (Narrated by Bukhari No. 694, No. Ahmad. 8662, Ibn Hibban No. 2228, Al Baghawi No. 839, Abu Ya'la No. 5843, Abu Nu'aim in Akhbar Ashbahan, 2 / 53)

atone for her husband who had died

Assalamu'alikum wr. wb

Ustad sigit blessed God.

I am a new wife left the husband has not reached 40 days, a period of 35 years of our marriage. I feel a lot of sins against my husband in his lifetime. because I feel not take care of him properly, had not apologized at times last, can not be a good wife for him.

What if I am wrong I always remember the good things during his life, and it made me feel even more guilty, if it does not incriminate him in the grave?

What can I do to atone for this guilt, and practice what can I give to him, to atone for my sins against him.

Syukron katsiron.

Wassalamu'alaikum wr, wb.

Ruswarni. Sumenep, Madura

Himawari
Answer

Qaradawi Fatwa: Zakat To Build Mosque

As for distributing alms to the mosque so that it can be used to glorify the name of God, dhikr to Him, upholding the symbols-symbols of Him, pray, and deliver lessons and advice, this includes the disputed scholars past and present .

Is that so it can be considered as "fi sabilillah" that includes one of the eight targets as dinashkan charity in Al-Karim in the letter quranul At-Tauba:

"Indeed it is only zakat-alms to poor people, poor people, caretaker-administrator of zakat, the Muslim convert who persuaded his heart, to (freeing) of slaves, those who owe, for the path of Allah, and those who is on the way, as a mandatory provision of God, and Allah is Knower, Wise. " (Surat At-Tauba: 60)

Or the word "sabilillah that means limited to the" jihad "Just as understood by jumhur? I have explained this problem in detail in my book Fiqh Az-Zakah, and here I am describing is not the problem anymore.